Twin flames, should we wait?
Have you ever heard about Twin Flames? This “spiritual” concept explains that we all have a twin flame, a person with whom we can live the best love relationship possible, our “soulmate”…
All this is very romantic, until we get into the “spiritual” explanations on twin flames. You then can learn that, after the beginning of a happy love relationship full of promises, a depressing and long period of separation is necessary before the reunion of the two persons, and after the reunion of course it will be amazingly great until the end of our life.
People interested in this Twin Flame concept are composed as follows:
1% just curious
99% are inside this depressing separation period and wish to find answers to shorten this dreadful period
I don’t believe that this concept is real, and here is why :
Real “spiritual” concepts are always based on high-level vibrations, meaning that spirituality trains us to maintain high and positive feelings in all conditions. Of course, it is not the case 100% of the time, but it is the “tendency” we follow when we are spiritual. Any pure spiritual concept will always encourage positivity and wellbeing, but will never justify a deep lasting sadness behind the promise that all will be beautiful after suffering. NEVER!
Outside of spirituality, do you really think that you could be sincerely happy with someone who made you suffer for so long through the separation he/she created? Do you really think that you will not hold ANY grudge against this person when he/she decides to finally come back? Do you really think that your memories of your suffering times will just vanish in a second? If you do really think so: you lack self-love… You are willing to endure suffering in the hope that someone else will make you happy. Let me tell you something: happiness comes from within, which means it is inside of you. Your happiness is yours, it can be triggered by the love of someone else, it can be triggered by doing the things you like to do, but it is already yours, you are not and you will never get YOUR happiness from someone else
Back to spirituality now: all living creatures are ONE, on the spiritual side, there is not you/me/him/her/this guy/that girl… We form one big entity on the spiritual level: our thoughts, our energies and our memories are all interconnected (which is actually why mediums can “see” things that concern other people, but it is another subject). So, spiritually, we are all ONE. This means that your soulmate can be anyone, and that you have multiple possible soulmates on Earth depending on what your tastes are when it comes to dating and depending on your level of vibrations. Refering to point 1 above, pure spiritual concepts make you feel good, so which one feels better:
Believing that there is only this one person who is your soulmate and he/she left you and now you have to wait for this one person to come back because otherwise you will never be happy?
Or believing that there are many people on Earth with whom you can live an amazingly happy and fulfilling relationship?
The truth is, though, that whatever you believe into: you will experience it (check out the explanations on conditionings in the Concept page of this website). If you believe that you have a twin flame and that you must suffer and that this person will come back, it actually may happen just like that, because it is your BELIEF that creates your reality (or else, you will keep attracting situations of “suffering” because you also carry the belief that a long suffering is necessary in order to get what you want, it’s a risk).
The real question to ask yourself may be: As YOU have the power to create what you want through your BELIEFS, what do you choose to believe into? And wouldn’t you rather choose beliefs that FEEL GOOD?