Ghosts, what are they, what can we do?
Being a shaman, I do see what people commonly call “ghosts”. I don’t like this word much but, let’s face it, at least everyone knows what we are talking about.
Ghosts are simply the soul of a person who is lingering in a space that is between the physical world (our world) and the spiritual world.
As I can see them, when they are in this “in-between space”, I see that they have the same appearance as they had when they were alive.
The majority of time: souls go automatically into the Light after their death. These will never be called “ghosts” as you think of. Souls that went into the Light feel more like “angels” in the sweet and comforting sensation that their presence makes you feel.
If a soul doesn’t automatically go into the Light after the body’s physical death, they remain in this in-between space for varying periods of time. This minority of souls is the one who created the “ghost” experiences for the living…
The three reasons for which a soul doesn’t go automatically in the spiritual world after they die are:
For 90%, they don’t know that they are dead. Yes, I know, it may seem strange, but it’s the case for many. I call this the “denial” because their mind builds an environment around them that makes them feel safe and gives them the illusion that they are still living their life just like before. Sometimes, they get in denial because they were scared of death when they were alive (be aware that not all people afraid of death will be in denial: the majority of people are afraid of death but they still go automatically into the Light as I said above), sometimes they never believed in life-after-death, sometimes they are still under the trauma that was caused by a violent death, sometimes they briefly understood that they were dead and it scared them so much that they convinced themselves that it was not true and that they were still living… The truth is that there are many reasons why a soul is in denial after their physical death, but in general, their denial comes from big fears.
For 5%, they have unfinished business. These souls know that they are dead, they have seen the Light but they don’t want to go on the spiritual world until an intermediary gives a specific message to their closed ones. Usually, this “intermediary” that these souls go to is a medium, a shaman, or anyone who can hear them. Once the message is given, the souls go by themselves into the Light.
For 5%, they are in strong negative emotions. Here there are many different cases. Sometimes they think that they don’t deserve to go into the Light because of a strong guilt that they still hold onto, so they choose to linger in this in-between space because they have seen the Light and they believe that they don’t deserve “Heaven”. In order to help these souls, a medium or a shaman must first convince them that they should let go of the guilt. Other times, they hold a very strong anger against someone who treated them badly. To be general, outside of fear, these souls hold onto strong negative emotions. When the negative emotion is oriented towards themselves: they can see the Light and they choose not to go to punish themselves. When the negative emotion is oriented towards others: they cannot see the Light and they wish others could have been punished.
I need to precise that these percents are just based on my personal experience. Maybe in some parts of the world, other mediums or shamans will have a different percentage for each category or would have experienced other categories too…
I also need to precise that, for each of these 3 categories, the soul can take more or less time to get out “by itself” from whatever was blocking them in this in-between space, and go into the Light by themselves with no one’s help.
Imagine a grandmother who falls asleep in a bus, she misses her stop and the bus keeps going and finally arrives in a foreign country. The grandmother wakes up and she has no idea where she is, everything is written in a foreign language that she doesn’t know: she feels scared and she only wishes to be back safely in her own town without knowing how to go back home, so she sits in a corner and looks at her feet because it is too scary for her to look at reality... This is what the first category feels like…
Imagine now a mother who wants someone to tell her son that he has cancer and must go and see a doctor right away… This is what the second category is like…
Imagine a father whose daughter died of a genetic disease at the age of 7 years old. He feels guilty because “genetics” mean that he may have given this disease to his daughter, and he feels even more guilty because he dies of old age while his daughter died so young… Or a woman who is furious about the violence and cruelty she was victim coming from her mother… This is what the third category is like…
Ok, now that you know more about “ghosts” ;) Let’s continue…
Have you experienced weird noises or moving objects? If you have, and if it was not logically explicable, you may have thought that it was because of ghosts. And you may have been right, it happens often with the first category and part of the third category:
For the ones that are in denial: As they recreate a false reality in this in-between space, sometimes, their reality collapses a little bit, and it scares them. Being scared creates a sudden impulse of energy coming from them, and this energy can affect things or people in the physical world. The truth is, even if something falls from the shelf to hit your head, the ghost didn’t do it on purpose. as a matter of fact, these souls don’t even see you as they are in denial. They think that they are in their apartment in the south of France while they are instead in your restaurant in the north of England, they have no idea of what they create through their sudden impulses of energy.
For the ones who hold strong negative emotions against others: Just like the ones in denial, they don’t see you. Here, their impulses of energy are auto-created because they are so angry that they build on their anger (just like someone repeating how angry against XYZ he/she is, and the more they repeat it, the angrier they get). It is with this category that you will find the most impactful and impressing demonstrations of “ghosts” which cause the most damages. If for example, an object moves across the room with strength and speed, we typically are in this described case.
Now now now, what to do if you experience all this?
If you can see and hear them: communicate, be kind, listen, understand their point of view… Do whatever it takes to help them calm down. You need to be extra gentle with the ones who are in denial because they may think that YOU are the ghost, cut communication if they are scared in order not to scare them more, and try again later with a softer and more gentle approach. Then, when you feel that they are calmer, open a tunnel of Light and ask their closed ones to get closer to the edge (seeing their closed ones who died before them helps A LOT!). Once they agree and are gone into the Light, you can close the tunnel.
If you cannot see and hear them: then, you probably just want them gone. Follow your intuition and follow your beliefs, they always hold the key. For some people, they pray and the ghosts “disappear”… . For some people, they decide to BELIEVE that ghosts don’t exist and the ghosts “disappear”… Other people need to involve a “specialist” to help them get rid of the ghosts… In all cases, just follow your intuition and you will get what you want, this is how much powerful you are!!
When I say that the ghosts disappear, they don’t actually disappear, but they go elsewhere because they “feel” that they are not welcome there, they “feel” that something is off and they start to “feel” uncomfortable there.
“Ghosts” taught me why mastering our fears and creating positive beliefs are important to focus on while we are alive: to improve our everyday life and to improve our spiritual and emotional state.
On the “Who am I” page of this website, you will see that I intervene for free when it comes to help souls pass into the Light, don’t hesitate to contact me, I always do what I can to help (bare in mind a possible time lag because I get many requests).